No frills package? It's the frills I like...
What is it with lingerie?
Nakedness is very sexy. I can cuddle up to my naked wife and get a raging hard-on. The sight of Cathy, my favorite escort, leaning forward to look out of a window whilst naked save for a pair of Gucci heels prompted a wild session many moons ago (as an aside, one of the few times I got a hard-on with an escort "unassisted" but I can get turned on by a certain look from my wife...).
However, put my wife in stockings and suspenders (thigh-highs and a garter belt for my US audience) and I'll be throwing her over the kitchen table to have my wicked way... Teddies, basques, thongs, french knickers, hipsters: anything will do it for me... Granny knickers are a bit of a turn off but a horn-dog like me can work his way around that!
So what is it that takes delicious nakedness and makes it even sexier when wraped in silk and lace?
My take on this is that it is a number of factors:
Male conditioning - all pornography seems to feature lingerie and early male fantasies are played out against lingerie clad Playboy models. However, that can't be the whole story - why does it feature so heavily in the first place?
Sexual preparation - a woman undressing, particulalrly if she is undressing to screw you is one of the most erotic sights there is. One of those stages, is the sight - and possible removal - of lingerie. But since watching a woman putting on stockings and other flimsy scraps of lace is very sensual, that can't be the whole case either...
Sexual readiness - if you know your wife/partner is wearing something sexy, you believe that she is doing it for you (or at least for someone - perhaps the milkman is about to get lucky...). I always find the thought that my wife has been out all day in a G string and half cup bra, presumeably thinking about sex (hopefully with me) as intensely horny. Walking about shopping with these little bits of silk rubbing against her, reminding her of sex. Mmmm... I can't wait to give her what she wants. Big pants and an industrial bra probably means she wants cocoa and an early night. So, give me the horny woman on the prowl in lingerie every time. Which brings me neatly to...
Intense passion - there is something very stimulating about the thought that your wife cannot wait until she is naked to fuck your brains out (see Bliatz's last post for why that is so horny). Wearing lingerie to bed is part of that. Personally I like even more extreme scenarios - my wife dolled up to the nines but blouse ripped open, skirt pulled up, expensive panties pulled to one side, stocking-sheathed legs wrapped around me and stiletto shoes pumping my arse to urge me faster and deeper into her pussy. Mmmm...
Different sensations - so far I have focussed on principally male views but women clearly get something from it... My wife seems to enjoy sex with panties on (as, it would appear, does Kitti). I think it is less the delicate sensation of silk against her skin and more the pressure of taut fabric on her clit. But that is just an opinion (and check out Girl WAOTM's latest post on her lingerie additction for a very different view). There is even a female site dedicated to it (Lingerie Dreams). It is also a different experience for the male - from the lace rubbing against our chests to the nylon sliding against our cheeks, which is nice...
Nevertheless, I am intrigued by the whole girly aspect, why they are turned on by it - I don't find myself fondling my dick if I slide on a new pair of silk boxers...
So that's it from one male perspective. Any thoughts?
Enjoy...
Nakedness is very sexy. I can cuddle up to my naked wife and get a raging hard-on. The sight of Cathy, my favorite escort, leaning forward to look out of a window whilst naked save for a pair of Gucci heels prompted a wild session many moons ago (as an aside, one of the few times I got a hard-on with an escort "unassisted" but I can get turned on by a certain look from my wife...).
However, put my wife in stockings and suspenders (thigh-highs and a garter belt for my US audience) and I'll be throwing her over the kitchen table to have my wicked way... Teddies, basques, thongs, french knickers, hipsters: anything will do it for me... Granny knickers are a bit of a turn off but a horn-dog like me can work his way around that!
So what is it that takes delicious nakedness and makes it even sexier when wraped in silk and lace?
My take on this is that it is a number of factors:
Male conditioning - all pornography seems to feature lingerie and early male fantasies are played out against lingerie clad Playboy models. However, that can't be the whole story - why does it feature so heavily in the first place?
Sexual preparation - a woman undressing, particulalrly if she is undressing to screw you is one of the most erotic sights there is. One of those stages, is the sight - and possible removal - of lingerie. But since watching a woman putting on stockings and other flimsy scraps of lace is very sensual, that can't be the whole case either...
Sexual readiness - if you know your wife/partner is wearing something sexy, you believe that she is doing it for you (or at least for someone - perhaps the milkman is about to get lucky...). I always find the thought that my wife has been out all day in a G string and half cup bra, presumeably thinking about sex (hopefully with me) as intensely horny. Walking about shopping with these little bits of silk rubbing against her, reminding her of sex. Mmmm... I can't wait to give her what she wants. Big pants and an industrial bra probably means she wants cocoa and an early night. So, give me the horny woman on the prowl in lingerie every time. Which brings me neatly to...
Intense passion - there is something very stimulating about the thought that your wife cannot wait until she is naked to fuck your brains out (see Bliatz's last post for why that is so horny). Wearing lingerie to bed is part of that. Personally I like even more extreme scenarios - my wife dolled up to the nines but blouse ripped open, skirt pulled up, expensive panties pulled to one side, stocking-sheathed legs wrapped around me and stiletto shoes pumping my arse to urge me faster and deeper into her pussy. Mmmm...
Different sensations - so far I have focussed on principally male views but women clearly get something from it... My wife seems to enjoy sex with panties on (as, it would appear, does Kitti). I think it is less the delicate sensation of silk against her skin and more the pressure of taut fabric on her clit. But that is just an opinion (and check out Girl WAOTM's latest post on her lingerie additction for a very different view). There is even a female site dedicated to it (Lingerie Dreams). It is also a different experience for the male - from the lace rubbing against our chests to the nylon sliding against our cheeks, which is nice...
Nevertheless, I am intrigued by the whole girly aspect, why they are turned on by it - I don't find myself fondling my dick if I slide on a new pair of silk boxers...
So that's it from one male perspective. Any thoughts?
Enjoy...
posted by Salvatori at 10:10 am
3 Comments:
Interesting.... I've had guys who liked it, ones who didn't. The ex actually liked seeing me in it, then would just say: Take all your clothes off. Huh.
I preferred him doing it. He'd rather see me naked, or 'peaking' out of a housecoat than see me in lace. I guess it's different for different people?
My view on the "girly aspect" ... I guess it has to do with what you call sexual readiness. When we put on those undies, it turns us on because we know we are getting dolled up for sex. Or maybe it is our narcissistic nature. I get wet dressing (not undressing) in front of a mirror. I can’t quite explain why.
Lingerie is a tease, which is why men like it.
My perspective is a little different than that. I've always been a little shy not very confident that my nudity was attractive. However, put on nice lace and silk, or even leather-look vinyl, and suddenly I look like a different person. I can cover certain areas I am shy about, and expose those that want attention. And it's like role-playing. I am transformed instantly into a sexual being!
-Christine, www.kntconfessions.blog-city.com
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