Don't let her son go down on you...

Bad news. My wife is definitely slowing down.

She has ever so slowly become more and more reluctant to receive oral sex.

"Lucky you," I can hear a bunch of men saying out there. This particular male reaction, I've never understood - and I am male (at least the last time I looked and until the wife finds out about this blog...).

Sex - and particularly making love (yes, they are different) - is, for me, about giving pleasure not just receiving. I like performing cunnilingus: I like the taste; the feel; the smell; all the sensations (even the hairs tickling my nose) but most of all I love the reactions. Every magazine (men's or women's) I read tells me this is a way to a girl's heart and her orgasms. So why won't she let me do it? I have done it with many escorts and been complimented - and I realise that they will flatter me but the comments seemed genuine ("we are going to have fun tonight..." said one girl, after one prolonged orgasm from my efforts at "dining at the 'Y'"; "where did you learn to do that?" was another).

So Salvatori is stumped. I seem to have acceptable technique and want to do it. The wife should want to receive it but doesn't want to let my lips descend below her belly button. Other forms of sexual intercourse are all firmly on the agenda - vaginal, blow jobs, mutual masturbation, even anal is willingly given.

She does get very turned on from even light petting and when I stick my cock in her mouth, she turns very wet indeed. Perhaps she thinks it a bit dirty (but then lets me stick my cock up her arse...)? Well, perhaps I'll have to try other forms of stimulation:

"There are a number of mechanical devices which increase sexual arousal, particularly in women. Chief among these is the Mercedes-Benz 380SL."
Lynn Lavner

Any theories?