Thursday, March 03, 2005

Sleeping beauty...

My last post might be inferred as suggesting that I am unhappy with my wife's sexual prowess. That was not my intention, as it is not true.

I am very satisfied. I just want to be even more satisfied. :-)

I was only recently thinking of how my sex life has changed. A year ago I was fucking escorts for a sexual thrill. I was coming home to a wife who had no interest in sex with me (or anyone else, as far as I could see).

Now, the escorts are gone from my life (if not always from my thoughts) and I have a wonderful time experimenting our sexualities with my wife, in a loving relationship. I believe that she is enjoying life too.

Last night was a great example. I came home to our country home late from a client dinner to find my wife asleep in bed. A few differences from last year:

  • In the old days I wouldn't have been at home. I'd probably have taken a hotel room in London (I have never been unfaithful to my wife in one of our homes) and shagged some expensive hooker. If I did come back, I'd have worked out she was asleep and taken the opportunity to do a little “five on one” in front of some porn, as sex would have been as unlikely as a snowball in hell.
  • What I would not have done is slip into bed immediately and slide softly next to her prone form.
  • She would not have been in silk lingerie that took my breath away.
  • I would not have kissed the back of her neck, stroked her hair.
  • She would not have reponded by murmering softly, eyes still closed, in contentment and desire (a “Not now, I'm asleep” would have been the standard result).
  • I would not have slipped my hand over her back, caressing her curves, feeling her warmth, savouring her sexual energy.
  • I would not have felt her legs part almost imperceptably and her hips nudge my erection in encouragement.
  • I would not have slid my hand over her soft buttocks and between her thighs, slipping my fingers to her vulva.
  • She would not have pushed her hips back slightly to allow my hand better access to her pussy.
  • Her labia would not have been hot, wet and engorged. They would not have welcomed my probing fingers hungrily.
  • I would not have slipped my fingers easily inside her or gently teased at her anus. This would not have driven her to moan softly.
  • I would not have slid between her legs and slipped my cock into her still prone form, kissing her neck, pinning her to the bed beneath me like a captured butterfly.
  • She would have not cried out as the first orgasm rippled through her.
  • I would not have pulled her hips up and fucked her sweet, burning pussy from behind until we reached a shuddering climax together (all without a word said).
My life has changed... I love it. I love her.

Enjoy...

7 Comments:

Blogger Virgin Slut said...

*claps* It's so good to know that at least one blogger is blissfully happy! You give us hope!

6:52 pm  
Blogger scrubsnhugs said...

There is nothing wrong with wanting your marriage to be better..definately you are putting effort into it! ;) Marraige should be a growing process, always, or so I believe. Your story reminds all of us to keep trying to make it better...and that there is hope. I love your blog!!

5:28 pm  
Blogger thegirl said...

Congratulations!

Amazing news!

You have come a long way - it's great to hear that things are improving so wonderfully with your wife.

Long may it continue!

xx

11:47 pm  
Blogger Salvatori said...

Thanks for your kind comments. I don't think I'm out of the woods yet (and there are other issues that I am still plucking up the courage to talk about openly). So I will continue to witter away here.

However, my wife and I have made huge strides and that makes me very happy.

8:39 am  
Blogger An Extraordinary woman in a mediocre life said...

a very gorgeous blog.
Those are the feeling we aspire to I guess.
Fantastic blog, I'm glad I happened by.
xxxx

9:58 am  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm sorry Salvatori, I don't
regularly read your blog (although
I should, you're a wonderful
writer). All those spanking blogs
and so little time.

What was it that changed in your
marriage that made what seems to
be a big difference?

Wintermute
wintermute128@yahoo.com
http://www.asstr.org/~wintermute/

4:26 am  
Blogger Salvatori said...

Well, I guess that I need to do a "Money Factory 101" post at some stage and put it in the sidebar...

In short, the catalyst was a row over me looking at porn (it is in the archives). This segued into why I was sexually frustrated / dissatisfied and it went from there.

A tough watershed - it could have gone either way.

Thankfully my wife chose to make the marriage work sexually (and I think she's getting quite a bit of enjoyment from that too...).

8:56 am  

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